"My mother worked in a New England textile factory sewing machine gun belts. Her modest dream was to continue her education and teach women’s athletics; a dream deferred to allow her older brother to attend university. Let’s raise a glass to Drinking like ladies, a book that celebrates extraordinary women who fought against the idea that young women who want careers are simply dreaming."

Dale Degroff, Author of the Craft of the Cocktail

“Inspired, original and captivating.  Drinking Like Ladies is a cocktail of hidden women’s histories, amazing recipes from some the best female bartenders around the world, and a graphic novel to boot.  I want to give a copy to all my pals. Especially my gal pals.”

Davia Nelson, NPR’s Kitchen Sisters

"Looking for the essential guide to frilly drinks that taste like creamsicles and fruit pops? Keep looking. Misty and Kirsten have collected cocktail recipes that deserve to endure from some of the best behind the bar, complete with chaser of education and inspiration. No froufrou, no handlebar mustaches — just sips to satisfy palate and soul." 

Wayne Curtis, author of And a Bottle of Rum: A History of the New World in 10 Cocktails.

“Misty Kalkofen and Kirsten Amaan have written a cocktail book for our times. Each of these 75 recipes was inspired by a remarkable woman, and is accompanied by a short history of same. Not just known notables like Ruth Bader Ginsburg and Hedy Lamarr, but also unsung figures like “Wrecking Crew” session musician Carol Kaye, fearless tavern owner “Dirty Helen” Cromwell and antebellum Pinkerton detective Kate Warne. Dive in, drink and learn. If there’s any justice, the mixologists who honor the women in these pages soon will be just as celebrated.”

Robert Simonson, New York Times cocktail writer and author of A Proper Drink.

From a Navy SEAL to a Rohingya activist, Erykah Badu to Betty White, the women in this book are a lens through which to see the world anew. Since the dawn of man, women have been scaling mountains, dreaming up inventions, discovering cures, and challenging the system in ways both quiet and strident, subversive and straight-on. Some are lauded, many have been overlooked. Drinking Like Ladies acknowledges all these fierce women and their achievements with delicious, inventive odes that will delight history buffs and cocktail nerds alike.

Leslie Parizeau, writer and co-author of SPRITZ: Italy's Most Iconic Aperitivo

 

At The Bitchery of History, we like to ask questions. Questions like, where is all the women’s history? Why don’t more people know about Irena Sendler?! When will there will be a drinking book that memorializes women in history AND helps us up our cocktail game during our weekly rants against the patriarchy?! Thankfully Drinking Like Ladies is not only gorgeous and informative, the recipes are inventive and look delicious! The women covered, some of which we’ve covered on the podcast, are well researched and diverse. So be classy, always Drink Like a Lady, and remember that Bitches Get Stuff Done.

Max Kirkham & Allison Powell, co-hosts / producers of "The Bitchery of History" podcast

 

about the authors

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Kirsten Amann

KIRSTEN "KITTY" AMANN has more than twenty years of experience in the beverage industry as a brand ambassador, educator, cocktail book author, podcaster, publicist, bartender, and spirits writer. She is the Northeast Trade Advocacy Specialist and New England Market Manager for Uncle Nearest Premium Whiskey and is the author of Drinking Like Ladies: 75 Modern Cocktails from the World’s Leading Female Bartenders. In both roles she is honored to share untold stories of greatness and help the truth find the light.

Kitty is a founding member of the Boston chapters of Ladies United for the Preservation of Endangered Cocktails (LUPEC Boston) and the U.S. Bartenders Guild. She is a Society of Wine Educators Certified Specialist of Spirits, an Executive Bourbon Steward, and has completed the Level II & III Award in Wine from the Wine & Spirits Education Trust.

Kitty speaks frequently on the history of women behind the bar and in the spirits industry, and has presented at Tales of the Cocktail, The Manhattan Cocktail Classic, Portland Cocktail Week, San Antonio Cocktail Conference, San Francisco Cocktail Week, Speed Rack Academy, and at the Smithsonian. In 2010 she co founded Tales of the Cocktail’s premiere women’s networking event, the Dame Hall of Fame, and oversaw its recent rebrand into the Catalyst Luncheon as co-chair from 2021-2023. 

Kitty has taught yoga in Boston, Rhode Island and around the world since 2010. She was among the first in the industry to introduce movement and breathwork to fellow bartenders, servers, and brand ambassadors to support their careers, and has presented at Tales of the Cocktail, The Manhattan Cocktail Classic, Portland Cocktail Week, and for local restaurants and USBG chapters. She leads consumer-facing yoga retreats incorporating yoga, wine, and cocktails to places like Sorrento in Italy, Costa Esmerelda in Panama, and Vermont's Green Mountains.

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Misty Kalkofen

MISTY KALKOFEN first stepped behind the bar while studying theology at Harvard Divinity School. She credits local music legend Brother Cleve with cementing her interest in classic cocktails the day he presented her with a bottle of Old Overholt rye and dubbed her his protege.

Upon completing her degree in 1998, Kalkofen realized what most excited her about the Bible was the passage where Jesus turned water into wine. Shortly thereafter, she joined the opening staff of the B-Side Lounge, the first bar in the city to focus on classic cocktails and vintage spirits. Since then Kalkofen has honed her craft in Boston’s best bars including Green Street, Brick & Mortar and the award-winning Drink.  

In 2007, Kalkofen founded the Boston chapter of Ladies United for the Preservation of the Endangered Cocktail, fulfilling her desire to “cocktail for a cause.” Rooted in the belief that everyone loves a good drink, people like to do good things, and broads can accomplish anything, the ladies of LUPEC have raised over $40,000 for local Boston women's charities by throwing the best parties in town.

In April 2013, Kalkofen joined the family of Del Maguey Single Village Mezcal. In her role as the Madrina, Kalkofen acted as a cultural liaison between the Del Maguey family of producers in Oaxaca and the US hospitality community through hands-on immersive educational experiences. In May 2023, Kalkofen joined the team at Suro International Imports where she will be able to continue to share her love for the history, heritage, and culture of Mexico's heritage spirits working with Siembra Spirits, Tequila Cascahuin, Mezonte, Mezcal Don Mateo de la Sierra, Paranubes and Pajarote.    

In March 2023, Kalkofen joined the team at Liquid Productions a full-service agency for beverage across all aspects of hospitality. At Liquid Productions, Kalkofen fulfills a vital role as part of their education and trade advocacy team, working closely with the founders to develop and implement globally renowned programs.

Misty Kalkofen has been featured in Bon Appetit, Imbibe, Food & Wine Cocktail editions, Wine Enthusiast, The Wall Street Journal, The Boston Globe, Tasting Panel, Wine & Spirits, and more. Kalkofen was nominated as American Bartender of the Year at Tales of the Cocktail 2011 and International Bartender of the Year at Tales of the Cocktail 2012 and 2013.  She was awarded American Brand Ambassador of the year at Tales of the Cocktail 2017.  In 2018, Kalkofen coauthored her first book with Kirsten Amann, Drinking Like Ladies. She continues to write as a contributor to Liquor.com. A believer in the power of education, Kalkofen is a faculty member at the prestigious BAR 5 Day Program.   

Kalkofen has spent the past twenty-five years honing her craft and her palate and has earned a reputation as one of Boston's foremost authorities on cocktail history and culture. Cultivating a spirit of camaraderie among cocktail lovers (while showing everyone a really good time in the process) is Misty’s mission across the many communities she touches. 

 
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From the onset, Drinking LIke Ladies has been a community, a collaborative project incorporating women from the global hospitality industry.

The COVID19 global pandemic has had disastrous effects on the hospitality industry. We have 45 years combined experience between us, and even though we no longer work behind the stick or apron we are devastated for our friends, family and the industry that has always been our home. We kicked off 2020 with a companion project to our 2018 book as a way to expand the DLL community via a podcast featuring unsung women who walk among us, the cool things they do, and of course, cocktails. Those lively recordings are still forthcoming, but for now we’ve turned our attention to sharing advice from experts and leaders in our field who can help us all navigate this global pandemic. If you’d like to financially support members of the industry please check out Another Round Another Rally (link). And for advice and input from industry leaders as to how they are navigating this crisis,  check out our podcast. Thank you so much!

Kirsten Amann & Misty Kalkofen